Real Family
by Steve Ridgell on Aug.03, 2009, under Hope
We were a thousand miles from home at a conference when we got the call. Our granddaughter had fallen off the back of the couch and was at the hospital. They had already diagnosed her with a severe concussion, but were running more tests. We could not even get a plane flight out until the next morning. We wanted to be there for our kids. We needed support ourselves. We had to do something. So here is what happened.
Team members from the ministry I work for gathered to pray for her. A local pastor was standing nearby, heard what had happened, and prayed with us. We had gone to have lunch with a preacher friend and his wife. They prayed for her, for us, and continued to check up on her by phone. A lady we did not know overheard my wife on the phone, introduced herself as a Christian, and prayed and cried with my wife.
We made two phone calls to members of our church back home. We left a message with the first couple. They thought it indicated that our children and granddaughter were out of town with us, and they were prepared to fly up and be with us. We talked to the other couple and within an hour they were at the hospital praying and being with our kids.
Even the doctor reading the test results was a member of our church.
So here is the point: when my family needed help and care, our Christian family was there for us. We all worship together. We are all believers. We are all family. And I could have called any number of others who would have done the same. As we would — and have — for them. This is not unique to my church family. I know of communities of believers all over the world that would have reacted the same way.
Our granddaughter is fine now. But I have to wonder, what in the world do people do without community like we have? Christianity is not just about the life to come. It is also about relationship here.

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I tend to try and read Heartlight every day and was interested in you Real Family story. How so wonderfully blessed you were.
I went through a bad time some years ago when I had been separated for some time and had just found out that my father was dying of cancer. It was awful (understatement). I had never called on my pastors for help specifically but at this time really needed support and so rang my Pastors wife (we were a really small church). The only reply I got was that i had a man in my life (which she knew was a non christian boyfriend) and to ring him. No support, no prayer, no comfort. My father was not kept in prayer – even though this was the church he used to attend before they moved away barely months ago. Even when the rest of the church found he was diagnosed with cancer there was no support, no prayer, no comfort. Needless to say I haven’t bothered with a church since! I have not given up on God – merely religious people. I would love to find a church that could be called family. I am delighted to hear that your granddaughter is well.
Being a grandmother and a Sunday School teacher, I can totally relate to this… God has been impressing on me to wonderful gift he has given me through my family and my Sunday School class – ladies of various ages who come together and share heartaches and blessings and grow toward Christlikeness together…. God is so good! I’m so glad your granddaughter is OK…